The Experience

We live in a world starved for connection.

At a time when we’re more plugged in than ever before, we’re also increasingly lonely, depressed, and addicted. In what social psychologists are calling a loneliness epidemic, there are more people living alone now than at any other point in history. Our number of close confidants – the people we call when the going gets tough – has declined by more than a third in the last few decades.

It’s not just the feel-good factor of connection that matters. It also has serious consequences for your health. Loneliness packs the same punch as smoking 15 cigarettes a day (wrap your head around that for a second!) and can decrease your life span by up to 8 years. It’s on par with mortality factors like obesity, physical inactivity, and alcohol consumption. This is serious stuff.

So what’s the answer? In the longest running study on human development, researchers have isolated one factor that matters more than anything else when it comes to happiness: our relationships. But it’s not just any ‘ol human contact that keeps us going. We need that deep, meaningful, I-see-you kind of connection.

That’s why this matters – and why we’re creating a space to settle in, dig deep, and connect.

This is not your average party! You’ll be entering a space where small talk is banned and deep questions give you street cred. We bring the questions and the food, you bring the open mind and curious heart.

Don’t worry, you won’t have to jump into the deep end straight away. We’ll lay out a few party principles for the evening and ease you into the conversation with some cool connection games.

Need a break from the buzz? There’s a quiet zone when you want some down time, and we’ll have ultra-compassionate Connectors keeping an eye out for anyone who needs a conversation buddy. You’ll get exactly what you need every step of the way.

This is a thoughtfully curated experience for introverts and extroverts alike. If you're a human and want to feel like you matter, this is the place for you.

Frequenty Asked Questions

What should I bring?

Curiosity, kindness, and an open heart.

Do I need to print my ticket?

Just bring the email verification you received with the QR code. (Not to worry, we can still check you in manually if you forget!)

What if I'm an introvert who hates parties?

No sweat! We’ve tailored every part of the evening to make you feel like you belong, whether you love all-night ragers or quiet corners. We’ll be keeping a special eye out for folks who might be feeling awkward. The whole point of this event is meaningful connection, and we’ll make sure you get it!

What if I'm an extrovert who's a pro at this connection stuff?

Fabulous! The real magic happens when we’ve got a beautiful blend of personalities and connection styles. 

Do I need to register or do you accept walk-ins on the day of the event?

Please register in advance, as we don’t take walk-ins or sales at the door. We want you to have an experience that feels rich and meaningful, so we limit the number of attendees to make it an intimate gathering. This also allows us to reduce the time spent on check-in and jump right into the juicy stuff!

What's the difference between waged, unwaged, and koha?

Waged tickets are for folks who are employed, and unwaged tickets are for students and those who aren’t working full-time. You can also contribute a koha amount so we can provide tickets to people who wouldn’t be able to attend otherwise. The experience is the same regardless of your ticket type; we just want it to be accessible for everyone.

What if I can't afford a ticket?

Drop us a line and we’ll make it happen.

When should I arrive?

Doors open 15 minutes before the start of the event. Please arrive in plenty of time to grab a beverage, get settled, and perhaps make a few new friends before we kick things off. It’s important to attend at the beginning when we set the stage for the evening.

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{Thank you so much for continually running a top tier event. I always leave the nights feeling gooey and connected inside and I will continue to attend for as long as they are run. 🙏❤️
{I feel Unchatter events are helping to make me a better person in day to day life.
{I love knowing why things work. Natasha’s brilliant explanations of the benefits of each activity have made the impact of each conversation and activity so much bigger.
{Even though I have attended a few times, each time is a new amazing experience of coming back to the heart and to who I really am.
{It. Is. Perfect.
{THANK YOU! I walked out with a new group of friends, a very full heart and so many ideas for conversations.
{It was very well organised and run, and I loved connecting in such a meaningful way with such an awesome group of people. This was my first one but I will definitely be coming again!
{It was beautiful and I'm on a connection high. I also met some awesome people who I connected with immediately and who I've stayed in touch with.